tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post8047429182699516894..comments2024-02-23T10:00:32.673-06:00Comments on the happy hausfrau: Weigh In Thursday: Adventures in Weight Watcheringthe_happy_hausfrauhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-86368420057509675062019-08-14T20:41:08.691-05:002019-08-14T20:41:08.691-05:00I just saw the other comment that matched my previ...I just saw the other comment that matched my previous comment about the scripture. I'm glad someone else explained that to you when you posted it. Keep in mind, that God often calls the adulterer "simple" and "foolish." So, God also thinks your ex is a dumbass! Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14507968879549200184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-26718258099290468092019-08-14T20:38:12.124-05:002019-08-14T20:38:12.124-05:00I know this post is old, I have just discovered yo...I know this post is old, I have just discovered your blog. You are a great writer and I have enjoyed reading your story so far. I am also a betrayed spouse. I just wanted to clarify something you wrote about the Bible saying that you are an abomination. That is not what it is saying! That particular verse you quoted is saying that the only reason a man may break his vow of marriage to a woman is if she is unfaithful. Adultery is grounds for divorce in the Bible. God is in no way condemning you for being divorced, he's condemning the adulterer. It's saying that if a man leaves a faithful wife, he is making her the victim of adultery. It's a verse to make men understand the seriousness in which God takes our marital vows. He can't leave her if she gets fat or old, only if she's unfaithful.<br /><br />Proverbs 6:32 says "But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself." <br />Hebrews 13:4 - "Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexual immoral."<br /><br />Please don't think that God is judging you or your children for your husband's sin. He is not. You husband will answer to that alone. It is all on him. Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14507968879549200184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-58366049677736118562012-08-06T20:06:48.708-05:002012-08-06T20:06:48.708-05:00You GO, girlfriend (said with an awesome fist pump...You GO, girlfriend (said with an awesome fist pump in your honor)!<br />That's great progress, how exciting. Pretty soon you'll need new clothes! Then you & I can go thrifting together. You go to a thrift, I'll go to a thrift, then we'll call each other. <br />My best friend & I used to watch movies like that.Bethnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-86655159352604612022012-08-05T08:30:22.052-05:002012-08-05T08:30:22.052-05:00Thank you! I did receive a couple other messages ...Thank you! I did receive a couple other messages about this, and I stand corrected. <br /><br />Thank you for your nice words, and for reading!<br /><br />Jennythe_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-23071245521861458152012-08-04T16:42:55.434-05:002012-08-04T16:42:55.434-05:00Hi Jenny,
Big fan of yours even though we've ...Hi Jenny, <br />Big fan of yours even though we've never met so I thought I'd bring you a bit of light re: the Matthew quote. Because of your jerky ex-hubbys'marital unfaithfulness' YOU are not considered an adultress, nor are you or your children abominations. Matthew says that infidelity is the only acceptable reason for divorce and since he cheated on you (not the other way around) you are not judged as such. Not trying to spark religious banter or impede on your blog, just wanted to let you know I think you are awesome and theres probably a tiki bar in heaven with your name on it as well :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-87968789927906745912012-08-03T12:45:37.294-05:002012-08-03T12:45:37.294-05:00I don't think 11 lbs. makes me a rock star...w...I don't think 11 lbs. makes me a rock star...we can hand out that accolade after I drop 30! That's my "damage control" amount. Then the real work begins. Sigh. <br /><br />I will fo sho save you a seat...apparently Kelian thinks the bar will have a tiki theme.<br /><br />Yep she will get through it, I'm sure of that. She is strong, stronger than I think I could ever be. <br /><br />Love you!the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-1811437201089745152012-08-03T12:41:09.314-05:002012-08-03T12:41:09.314-05:00Girlfriend, when we do meet up it's going to b...Girlfriend, when we do meet up it's going to be EPIC. I'll pack my yoga pants with the stretched out waistband, ok?<br /><br />I did think of you when James took a turn for the worse..I remember when you went through this with Taylor and her buddy. I also don't know how parents survive this, but they do...and they have my endless admiration and support. No parent should ever have to sit through their child's funeral. I just keep picturing James reunited with Miles, with no tubes attached to him, no hospital beds in sight. My heart aches for him, thinking of all the things he didn't get to do, and even more so for Sarah. He was her life. <br /><br />Love you, girl.the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-82423260778757241312012-08-03T08:09:36.385-05:002012-08-03T08:09:36.385-05:00You are a total rock star, Jen. I failed at WW be...You are a total rock star, Jen. I failed at WW before, and though I've thought of doing it again, the fear of failure is stopping me (it's my own worst enemy). <br /><br />Save me a seat in hell, if you get there, first my friend. It'll be an awesome party, for sure!<br /><br />I'm not sure how Sarah will get through this, but I know she will. She and her sweet boy will remain in our hears and thoughts, even if we can't be with her in person today.Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12466143468246723860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-81336413663755285312012-08-02T21:46:35.344-05:002012-08-02T21:46:35.344-05:00Wherever we all end up when we die, it better incl...Wherever we all end up when we die, it better include you, me and 2 empty seats at a tiki bar...ill bring the chapstick.....muah!! <3<br /><br />My heart literally breaks for Sarah...as you know, I've walked down this road w/ 2 friends in the past few years...I personally haven't gotten over it...shook me to the core...I don't know how she will survive...but she will, and the days, months and years to come will be when she needs us the most. Right now she is surrounded...RIP sweet baby James....keliannoreply@blogger.com