tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post6876829383602761920..comments2024-02-23T10:00:32.673-06:00Comments on the happy hausfrau: What To Do When Your Husband Leaves Youthe_happy_hausfrauhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comBlogger183125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-42692777102672903202017-08-03T21:41:37.783-05:002017-08-03T21:41:37.783-05:00I just found this blog. My husband of 17 years cam...I just found this blog. My husband of 17 years came home 2 weeks ago grabbed his clothes announcing he was leaving. He blocked my number so I couldn't call him. I did manage to reach him with a friends phone and he informed me he isn't in love with me but he cared about me. Yeah right. We were best friends. We acted like newly weds up until a week before he left. He forged my signature on checks to an account his name isn't on. I wasn't allowed to press charges because " we are married ". I hacked into his email account and found that he had been trying to meet women on dating sites a week before he left. I have stood by this man for 17 years through addiction with several relapses I could have left but I didn't because I loved him. He was always so sweet to me but now he is cold and indifferent. I have friends and family who are helping. I try to stay busy but I think about him all day everyday. I have lost 20lbs. I want him to call but then I don't because I can't handle his coldness. I tell myself the man I loved has died and this person is not him. This person is cruel. I don't think I could ever trust him again and I don't want a man who doesn't want me but I'm so use to standing by him it's hard to let go completely. I found out he quit his job and moved in with his sister 2 hours away. He reportedly doesn't go anywhere. I keep thinking doesn't he miss me. I guess not. I wanted closure so I tried roleplaying what I'd say to him but just doing that hurt to much. I'm getting better though I have resumed eating and went back to work. I didn't realize how many people have experienced the same thing. How can men be so cruel. I go between hurt and anger. I want him to suffer and be miserable but then I want him to want me again. Thank y'all for sharing your pain with me and helping me see I'm not alonesingeagainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02776106725815967401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-66963064284783268712017-08-03T21:24:38.503-05:002017-08-03T21:24:38.503-05:00My husband of 17 years left 2 weeks ago. He treate...My husband of 17 years left 2 weeks ago. He treated me like I was a princess up until 1 week before he left. I have stood by him through addiction and rehabs I worked while he looked for jobs. He told me he wasn't in love anymore I had no clue. I tried to call him but he blocked my number the one time I got to talk to him he was so cold telling me it's over. I cried for these 2 weeks lost 20 lbs. he emptied my checking account I went to police because he forged my signature on checks ( his name wasn't on the account) but was told couldn't press charges because we were married. I hacked into his email account and found out he was on dating sites trying to find someone before he left. I had no idea. I am so angry and hurt. I have had many reasons to leave him in these past 17 years because of relapses and I stayed but he puts no effort in trying to save us. He just left. I have friends and family who have been great I have a good job and make decent money so ok financially. The memories of us are the worst. I found out he quit his job and moved in with a sister who I have talked to. She tells me he just sits and watches tv. So I don't think he ever found anyone. I know I don't need someone who is a coward and is so willing to walk away but I'm still in love but I'm in love with the man I knew not this cold cruel person he is now. Thank y'all for telling your stories it is good to hear I'm not alonesingeagainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02776106725815967401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-69635644067655385122016-01-11T19:03:25.768-06:002016-01-11T19:03:25.768-06:00My husband of 10 years just walked out on me and o...My husband of 10 years just walked out on me and our 3 kids for another woman who has kids. Im only 33 but i feel like my life has ended without him. Hes only been gone a week so the pain is still super fresh. I dont want to love him anymore but i cant seem to stop. I cant seem to accept it. He said he doesnt love me anymore and he wants a divorce. I cant wrap my mind around the fact that he hasnt even called his kids to tell them he loves them. They're only 3, 5, and 9. My son thinks hes just at work and keeps asking when daddys coming home but how do u tell a 3 year old that his daddy left us and isnt coming back. We're getting evicted and he knows but said what do i want him to do about it. I dont have any family and nowhere to turn. My kids and i will more than likely end up in a womans shelter and that terrifies me bc i dont want to lose my kids. I dont have a drug problem. Im not an alcoholic. I never betrayed him or our marriage so why do i have to suffer when i was wonderful to him. How long does the pain last? I wish i could turn my heart to ice and not care but im not that kind of person. I feel like i will always love him even though he doesnt love me anymore. Im trying to be better but it feels like a losing battle. I just want to be happy again. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-28202421968791228462015-11-24T00:55:02.742-06:002015-11-24T00:55:02.742-06:00He brought food she cooked 2 of my special dishes....He brought food she cooked 2 of my special dishes.... and put it in our refrigerator. With a smirk. Apparently the food was not good enough to eat he did not finish them.To me that means he cheated with her long enough for her to know his favorite foods that I cooked.godcanbutwillhenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-12085434091739481672015-11-24T00:48:52.153-06:002015-11-24T00:48:52.153-06:00??trends
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vid...??trends<br /> Leave before holidays<br />unrecognizable<br />video games? ?<br />Pray the scriptures overthe symptoms godcanbutwillhenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-435747994438775192015-11-24T00:44:47.905-06:002015-11-24T00:44:47.905-06:00The blogger is an awesome hilarious writer. I am 4...The blogger is an awesome hilarious writer. I am 4 years into standing for my marriage. I can relate to every thing. I choose to put my trust in god. To the world and to myself I feel like a fool. Check out rejoice marriage ministries website. There is comfort. Hang in there.godcanbutwillhenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-84455651109509448282015-07-12T16:40:09.977-05:002015-07-12T16:40:09.977-05:00My husband anounced out of the blue he wasn't ...My husband anounced out of the blue he wasn't happy and hadn't been for a while.He didn't tell me he wanted to split up I had to say it for him his words were I don't want to be here anymore. He told me it was over and went off to work for a few weeks I've followed all the help I've read and not made contact he sent a message to say he was coming home to get some stuff and we could talk. He's been home for a few weeks we had a talk there's no one else involved. He's stopping at his grandmothers house and taking time to take our son out he still talks to me but not about anything in particular. He said I could stay in our home and he would help out with anything I needed but he has never given me a reason for his leaving he said we are best friends and always have fun together and there's other things but I think I've left it to late. I have decided to not ask him and nag him about it if he wants to tell me he'll do it in his own time he's not blaming anyone he said were both to blame. He goes back to work in a few more weeks and I won't see him for a while I will only contact him if my son needs something. I'm keeping myself busy going out with friends but has anyone got any advise on to what to do am I going about this the right way my friends think I'm mad but I'm just hoping that he'll realise what he has left and come home. We've been together for 17years and Married for 15yrs has this happened to anyone else ?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-87969127606854591362015-07-09T22:47:07.542-05:002015-07-09T22:47:07.542-05:00Please just acknowledge my anquishPlease just acknowledge my anquishAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-57003608924762997472015-07-09T21:12:04.587-05:002015-07-09T21:12:04.587-05:00I Donot like the fact that women are taking other ...I Donot like the fact that women are taking other women's husbands & boy friends....What I would like to me to see that the women on both sides get together and get the man...If this would happen I do believe some of these men would think before they act....because if you think about it he has no respect for neither women..the one he left & the one he's with......why can't they control their penis.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-19449426423211115462015-07-09T21:03:43.841-05:002015-07-09T21:03:43.841-05:00My heart just drop from reading these post. Ever o...My heart just drop from reading these post. Ever one is responsible for their own actions.!!! I blame social media for a lot of marriages and relationships that breakup..these sites men & women get lost they can meet people all over the world.they cheat with their spouse sitting in the next room Now the smart phone is reported to be the best device for cheating. Men & women texting the other person ,while their partner is sleeping next to them in bed. People have always cheated.but it is out of control. This is because you can actually talk with these people ...face to face on webcam...people are actually having sex online.I thought I would never say this but back in the day when men looked at porn it was just a picture of the person .you couldn't have conversation with a picture so chances of having a affair ...not so ..the person had to go out and look for the person to have an affair with...And you know the spouse would know what u were up too...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-27370609251047099842015-07-07T22:43:09.007-05:002015-07-07T22:43:09.007-05:00My husband and I knew each other since we were 14 ...My husband and I knew each other since we were 14 years old, dating at 16, engaged at 17, married at 19. Love of my life and always will be. We were the poster child for all our friends and anyone who ever met us as the quintessential couple that were the luckiest people to have found each other and a life together than few seemed to share. After 45 years together as soul mates my husband decided that he would rather do things alone that with me and that he had slowly fallen out of love with me. I was devastated and will be for the rest of my life. He has moved out to his own apartment and although we work at the same office, is cordially, but not the soul mate I will love forever. I have only love for him and if he is struggling I want to help him. After 62 years of my life, only 16 we have not been the most important part of each other's lives, WTF?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-25876992623654364122015-06-09T01:36:26.739-05:002015-06-09T01:36:26.739-05:00I broke up with my ex of 7 months a little over a ...I broke up with my ex of 7 months a little over a week ago. It was pretty much a relationship where we were both taking each other for granted. He eventually ended it by coming over to my house and I simply said 'I know what you're going to say, it's not working out' before he had a chance to. I then rushed him out the door saying 'you should leave now' and when he tried to say bye to my Labrador I was really rude. I essentially said 'what are you doing?! Just get out'. The worst part was that when we got the door I opened it merrily and then said in a sing song voice 'byeee!' and then when he said 'see you soon?' I said 'no you fucking won't' and slammed the door. (Apologies for all the speech in the middle of text). I feel so terrible about ending it in such a cold way after the relationship ending was both of our faults. On social media he seems to be doing fine, but I feel awful and like such a bitch. My friends keep telling me not to text an apology as I might look like a desperate ex trying to get back together. However, I genuinely just want to give the poor guy an apology,which i did but no way, he didnt take me back. i was so down and frustrated because i loved him. so i heard about a man who can help solve relationship problems and i contacted him on (prayerstosaverelationship@yahoo.com) and he helped me pray for my relationship and my ex got back to me and we are happy today, you can also contact him now if you have any problem on (prayerstosaverelationship@yahoo.com).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-81512506831119504272015-06-06T21:44:49.791-05:002015-06-06T21:44:49.791-05:00Keep purging, whenever u need to. It helps alot.. ...Keep purging, whenever u need to. It helps alot.. second, is there anywhere u can go? Mom, sisters, cousin, friend. U gotta regroup to map out your next steps. Find any and every crevice of hidden assets etc. Then have your attny. Sepeona EVERYTHING. U just never know. Meanwhile, HARD TRUTH HERE: your job is your livelihood. U MUST free yourself from concentrating on ONLY work, while at work. I'm a Christian so I developed rugburn from the amount of time I spent crying out to the lord. Food didn't magically appear but people & opportunities popped up when I needed it most. So Trust God. God says in His word that HE is near to the brokenhearted. God knows...I am praying as well. U will survive this. I promise. Be encouraged...keep working and follow the $$ with the X. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12465266956527484059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-89012395889095781052015-06-06T20:57:46.864-05:002015-06-06T20:57:46.864-05:00Thank you for your kind comments. My flip flops br...Thank you for your kind comments. My flip flops broke today. Stupid, huh - to cry over my only pair of flip flops. This coming from a woman who had 'that kind of closet' - one side for shoes, one side for purses. I have just enough money to go to my brother out of state - I tried for several months to keep a roof over my head - a 580 sq ft apt - but now I can't even hold down a job for more than two months. I tried to keep everything together the way it used to be - but I can't even focus on the small stuff. Just knowing a I have pop-tart and an orange juice for the morning is good for me to know right now before I go to bed. I hate this - I hate this so much. I never cheated on him, was always there, worked hard at my career and did all the things I thought I should have done. I just sent my 'discovery' paperwork to my attorney a month ago. He said he was mad because I worked in 2013 and 2014 and said "I thought you were destitute?" I am. When I work I make good money. The problem is I have been let go three times in one year - why? I can't focus on the job - simple mistakes that I would have never done before - now I am making them. I don't want to say on here what the career is for various reasons. So now? The biggest mistake I made was to sign a lease for my apt contract for ten months. I'm going to have to move out in two weeks. I may as well kiss my credit goodbye forever. I worked so hard for so many years for it and was proud that it was so good. I haven't heard from the attorney since I sent my discovery paperwork in. I don't know what is next. Thank you for allowing me to verbalize on here - I don't have anywhere else to do it. Thank youAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-61601348438266093652015-06-06T11:38:36.952-05:002015-06-06T11:38:36.952-05:00Oh God. I'm so, so sorry you're dealing wi...Oh God. I'm so, so sorry you're dealing with this at the age of 64. This is the time you should be chilling out, taking it easy and winding down so you can enjoy life.<br /><br />What an asshole. Where are you in the divorce process? If you're not getting at least half of everything, and depending upon your salaries, spousal maintenance, you need a new lawyer. <br /><br />What he did is called abandonment. And it shouldn't matter if you worked or not, he can't just effing leave and not contribute to your household expenses...unless the two of you had entirely separate finances?? Or the house was solely in your name?<br /><br />I think you need to contact Legal Aid. There's no way in hell you should be suffering like this. Now I'm pissed for you.<br /><br />Please keep me updated, and huge hugs from Minnesota. Hang in there, sister.the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-9626111956644152452015-06-06T10:57:31.344-05:002015-06-06T10:57:31.344-05:00WOW. I'm so sorry to hear that. I can relate t...WOW. I'm so sorry to hear that. I can relate to you on so many levels. I'm no expert but what I say is from the heart and from experience. His sorry, probably won't mean much cause it doesn't change anything. My X did give me sorry over and over again but it didn't change anything. We still screwed around up til a month ago but guess what...he still went home to the other woman. <br />So what did I do? I kept working. Financials were the most difficult but it never made me give up. In fact I declared to him, to myself, to the world, You will not Defeat me. I will not crumble. I still cried and on occasion felt jealous and resentful but I refuse to lay down and let him piss on me. <br />Lady, tell your beautiful self that you are wonderful and beautiful and sexy and fun. You are smart and rich and you are valuable all by yourself. This is no accident. This is transition. ( I know it's hard honey) Please don't cave in. Fight, fight fight. You deserve it. So much I want to say but don't quit. Sing a song, write a book, take a run, or walk, go bike riding, take up a art class, do something to climb out of that space in your head. <br />I'm telling you the same things I had to tell myself and it helped me sooo much. It's not perfect but it's better, every day, it gets better! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12465266956527484059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-62057172835576979012015-06-05T22:16:31.593-05:002015-06-05T22:16:31.593-05:00I'm going through the same thing right now. I&...I'm going through the same thing right now. I'm 64. He left two years ago - I mean just said he was going out of town on business, I never came back - no words, nothing and also left me with nothing. We lived very well for years - both of us with great careers. He has "move on" and has never missed a beat - lives a great life, still has a great career. Me? I can't even hold on to a job for more than 2 months now - I can't focus on anything anymore. My credit is ruined - I can't barely pay basic bills - and haven't paid my credit cards in months - my credit is gone. Most days now are spent wondering what I will eat and how much. I haven't been able to afford my high blood pressure medication as well. You would think that the career I had had with two graduate degrees, I could make it on my own. I can't. I'm just so broken now - I look old - I never did and always healthy. And the worst part - I'm alone. I hate the though of holidays. Last Xmas I treated myself to pancakes and two eggs. Far cry from great holiday dinners and celebrations - now it is all gone - my hold world - my life, my identity that I loved is all gone. We are currently going through a divorce and I doubt I will get anything out of it. I just wish - I just wish I would have heard just two words from him instead of nothing at all. "I'm sorry" would have helped instead of what I know already and read here with the passive aggressiveness of nothing. I feel as if I am a piece of garbage that he decided to just throw out one day because he probably thought I was getting too old for him (he's one year younger). Just - "I'm sorry" That's all I wish I could have heard - and knowing I never will. I'm just broken - numb.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-7009395316015323482015-05-30T18:18:40.230-05:002015-05-30T18:18:40.230-05:00when my husband left me for another woman my life ...when my husband left me for another woman my life was miserable and i was<br />almost short lived until i read some reviews about how to get your husband<br />back then i found dr okun of okuntemple@gmail.com email address that he was<br />a good and passionate spellcaster i was initially confused though cause i<br />saw many addresses of different spellcasters but i was moved to try dr okun<br />of okuntemple@gmail.com so i contacted him told him all that has happened<br />and he listened to me told me all we needed to do to get him back so i<br />followed him due to the relief i got talking with him in the first place so<br />he initiated the return love spell and my husband came back to me four days<br />after my spell was done i must let you know that i paid what i was asked to<br />pay to make it a success dr okun of okuntemple@gmail.com is indeed a<br />miracle worker there are still very true powers that helps wholeheartedly<br />life is meaningful to me once again courtesy okuntemple@gmail.com<br />his contact number is +2348133349055<br /><br /> <br />STELLA ABODREY<br /><br /><br />annymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05383834326628208637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-53952017541898013422015-02-20T00:04:52.121-06:002015-02-20T00:04:52.121-06:00I honestly thought that my marriage was healthy. i...I honestly thought that my marriage was healthy. i loved my husband with all my heart. we was married 8 years and have a 3 yr old son. we bought a house 2 months ago. i told him i was pregnant…then he starting acting strange. he didn't want me to keep the baby. one day i decided to tell him i could not go through with not having the baby (about 2 months pregnant), then he tells me he doesn't love me anymore. 2 days later he tells me he cheated on me and wants a divorce. he has since (2 weeks) been really cruel, cussed at me, told me he was going to file kidnapping on me, and has generally acted like i am a doormat. the other woman even contacted me and told me she is going to be my children's stepmother. i know that the affair was not very long because he met her 3 months ago. i don't know what has happened to my husband. i cannot eat or sleep and only have a sister with minimal finances. i completely alone and scared. i needed help because i don't know what to do. he filed for a divorce with a lawyer. so 3 days later a friend told me about a spell caster prophet.chasus@yahoo.com, i contacted him and told him my problem and what i wanted and after 3 days he brought my husband back and made my husband a changed man, he is now a good man.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11386537373718833450noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-46698801536726434792015-02-01T13:24:23.310-06:002015-02-01T13:24:23.310-06:00When I told my husband I was pregnant he had no mo...When I told my husband I was pregnant he had no more use for me. As the months went by he became more distant.<br />Went to the hospital to have the baby and he sold or gave away everything we owned cancelled our insurance and just left me with nothing. I can't pay for the hospital bill so temporary living in a woman's shelter. He never looked back but just left everything.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-17725810864105871822015-01-14T10:11:59.681-06:002015-01-14T10:11:59.681-06:00A lovely combination of positive thinking and real...A lovely combination of positive thinking and real talk! Patent Agenthttp://www.eip.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-81684349996810226652014-10-15T19:08:27.977-05:002014-10-15T19:08:27.977-05:00Its crazy that men can think they can just pack an...Its crazy that men can think they can just pack and leave as they feel. Almost checkin in and out of a hotel. My husband and I have been married for just over a year and it has been constant fights and instead of honeymooning he decides to pack and leave me. Lucky for me i dont have any kids with this man, and i would need to think a 100times before i consider this. And the worst thing is that I want him back desperately.I miss his presence. But why can I not understand he doesn't love me that is why he has packed and left. And what would be best is for me to move on too. A bit too soon to say this as it has only been a day. Marriages are such hard work. It is best to be single and feel alone then to be married and miserable.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17777555801185345214noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-69585126051463569732014-10-09T07:58:29.816-05:002014-10-09T07:58:29.816-05:00Hello,
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