tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post3868434184733379688..comments2024-02-23T10:00:32.673-06:00Comments on the happy hausfrau: Oh noes. Someone on Tumblr Hates Methe_happy_hausfrauhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-66928939021289172012014-02-13T21:46:08.821-06:002014-02-13T21:46:08.821-06:00I can't find the offending post...I regularly ...I can't find the offending post...I regularly read your posts and can't imagine any of your written work as deserving of anyone's hateful response.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-65895805919444668422014-02-12T21:53:50.887-06:002014-02-12T21:53:50.887-06:00Getting hate mail means you have ARRIVED as a blog...Getting hate mail means you have ARRIVED as a blogger... people actually care what you think enough to be offended by it! I want some hate mail! But I do not want to be fucked in the ear either. Angel The Alienhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16158672957404194956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-69482012949878440142014-02-12T06:30:42.508-06:002014-02-12T06:30:42.508-06:00:) Now, don't get me started on those Downton...:) Now, don't get me started on those Downton Abbey chicks...the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-67214285087090833292014-02-11T23:45:04.150-06:002014-02-11T23:45:04.150-06:00Anon above. Thanks for your kind reply. I do under...Anon above. Thanks for your kind reply. I do understand where you came from. It makes me feel happy that we can address our differences in a civil and amiable way on the internet. Good luck for the job thing!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-50581415841497862672014-02-11T21:33:08.357-06:002014-02-11T21:33:08.357-06:00Anon, thank you for this very kind and very civil ...Anon, thank you for this very kind and very civil comment. You could have ripped me a new one, and to be honest, it would have been semi-deserved. I re-read this, several times, and yes, I do come across as being a judgmental bitch towards all things fandom. That was not my intent.<br /><br />I did indeed conjure up images of a very certain part of the population.And I'm not like that. I apologize for that. <br /><br />We had a hockey tournament this weekend. We had breakfast at Perkins and I saw a girl walk in with a purse that said "I'm SHER-LOCKED" or something. I smiled.<br /><br />Deep down I am a fangirl. And if I was younger or childless or had a different life, I'd probably be on Tumblr too. And maybe I'd have had a vitriolic response to some stupid post written on a whim by a woman who lived in a different universe than me. <br /><br />The thing is, she put my name on her post. She attacked me, and was a complete twat about it. I've never asked anyone, in real life or online, to fuck themselves in the ear. She threw down, and I responded. Should I have left out the Sherlock, Dr Who stuff? Maybe. But I was irritated. <br /><br />My apologies if you were offended by what I wrote. That wasn't my intention. And my apologies to all of those who do the fandom thing and aren't bitches. <br /><br />Thank you again for being kind about this. I sincerely hope you have a good day too. the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-58529657738244648782014-02-11T17:29:53.727-06:002014-02-11T17:29:53.727-06:00Thanks Andrea :)Thanks Andrea :)the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-26116282945618899832014-02-11T17:13:05.032-06:002014-02-11T17:13:05.032-06:00Thanks Gretchen :)Thanks Gretchen :)the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-37101185715495866772014-02-11T17:12:27.852-06:002014-02-11T17:12:27.852-06:00Thanks anon :)Thanks anon :)the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-26423991998956729822014-02-11T17:11:44.380-06:002014-02-11T17:11:44.380-06:00Thanks Kathy! I don't know about arriving...I ...Thanks Kathy! I don't know about arriving...I will take food, alcohol and cash too :) <br /><br />Thanks for reading!the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-49317888714767301312014-02-11T17:02:18.109-06:002014-02-11T17:02:18.109-06:00I always loved your blog and I think it's pret...I always loved your blog and I think it's pretty awesome that you stand up against hate letters. But please don't make this you against people who actively participate in fandoms in general. They do what they enjoy, just like you do what you enjoy. The fact one of them is rude to you doesn't mean you should feel free to ridicule a group of people. Thank you. Hope you have a good day.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-6641805696994529052014-02-10T09:43:42.212-06:002014-02-10T09:43:42.212-06:00LOVE IT!! Good for you. Perfectly written response...LOVE IT!! Good for you. Perfectly written response and the Braveheart photo at the bottoms well that seals the deal! You are such an amazing strong women. Keep on keeping on. AndreaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-17299842392630625622014-02-06T13:30:15.371-06:002014-02-06T13:30:15.371-06:00Love it, keep doing what you are doing! Good stuf...Love it, keep doing what you are doing! Good stuffGretchennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-71390339953428755772014-02-06T11:44:30.888-06:002014-02-06T11:44:30.888-06:00eh opinions are like assholes everyone has one - b...eh opinions are like assholes everyone has one - but I totes thought your article was funny and I do say things that are in your article on occasion but I still thought it was funny and it didn't make me mad at all - I think some people are overly sensitiveAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-64647977158196245292014-02-06T07:08:36.101-06:002014-02-06T07:08:36.101-06:00What a perfect letter!!!! I guess in some small wa...What a perfect letter!!!! I guess in some small way getting hate mail means that you have arrived though I could think of better ways to celebrate the occasion. Roses, chocolate, all better than a hate letter!! Thanks for showing that you can respond to hate with grace and class! <br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09107661365906909620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-45358198035546638302014-02-06T05:23:14.926-06:002014-02-06T05:23:14.926-06:00I think they're all perpetual grad students ;)...I think they're all perpetual grad students ;) <br /><br />And for the record, I endorse the usage of "fuck". I don't want to get into any more trouble with the ladies who swear.the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-57634939991167555802014-02-06T00:03:43.799-06:002014-02-06T00:03:43.799-06:00The other day I let fly at him - I swore like the ...The other day I let fly at him - I swore like the proverbial sailor!<br />http://ayearfromgroundzero.blogspot.com.au/2014/02/detour-off-high-road.html<br />javajivehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08861252722283263501noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-44180011888222408932014-02-05T19:34:19.791-06:002014-02-05T19:34:19.791-06:00Thank you! The ex. Oh, the ex. Do you say it direc...Thank you! The ex. Oh, the ex. Do you say it directly to him? I say it a lot to mine, but usually only in the rants I save for my alone time in the car. the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-19631665885407676842014-02-05T19:25:38.826-06:002014-02-05T19:25:38.826-06:00Bill I don't want to know if it's possible...Bill I don't want to know if it's possible. I suppose, inter-specially it might be? I don't know about the great writer thing. But I guess it's a start :)the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-85579344053724240752014-02-05T19:23:45.032-06:002014-02-05T19:23:45.032-06:00You are so not who I had in mind when I was thinki...You are so not who I had in mind when I was thinking about diminishing the word fuck. It's more the people like that chick who wrote this hate mail, and the nasty commenters on some sites. I mean, as I replied to Danielle above, I love me a good mother effer. I say it quite often IRL. But when I write it, or type it out somewhere (here or in emails or texts, whatever) for some reason I have to really mean it. <br /><br />It has to be fuck-worthy sentence. And now I'm inspired to write about it, ha!<br /><br />And would you believe during my twitter fight, I was accused of being homophobic for using the word butt-hurt? Yes. That happened.the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-35559926433685661582014-02-05T19:19:45.017-06:002014-02-05T19:19:45.017-06:00Aww you're welcome, Stephanie. And thank you. ...Aww you're welcome, Stephanie. And thank you. I love this.the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-69744488400014455122014-02-05T19:10:35.421-06:002014-02-05T19:10:35.421-06:00Perfectly written and pitched as usual. Love your ...Perfectly written and pitched as usual. Love your blog!<br />I don't get all the kitteh memes,the use of 'haz' and other similar bastardisations of the English language, but to each their own..<br />Yes, I like a perfectly directed and timed fuck too - well a verbal fuck is all I'm able to give these days, towards my ex, to which he's had plenty over the last couple of days. Was very satisfying, but not as satisfying as the real thing ;)javajivehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08861252722283263501noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-6708206252489874192014-02-05T19:08:23.415-06:002014-02-05T19:08:23.415-06:00Wait! In the ear? Is that even possible? I don&...Wait! In the ear? Is that even possible? I don't see the thrill. You truly haven't arrived until you start to attract the internet kooks. I'm pretty sure the conspiracy theorists will soon decide that your blog is the cause of all that is wrong with the world, Yet, they will actually mention the blog, just quote it. Be happy that your words are causing such a reaction. Great writers always have their critics. Congrats on making it. Bill Snoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-72026900255928801232014-02-05T18:56:00.673-06:002014-02-05T18:56:00.673-06:00I said-and still say-like half the crap you wrote ...I said-and still say-like half the crap you wrote about in that piece. And I'm probably one of those people who diminishes the power of the word "fuck," too. And yet? No butt-hurt. No butt-hurt anywhere to be found. Some people NEED to be butt-hurt. It's their oxygen, because they have nothing else. Kristen Mae at Abandoning Pretensehttp://abandoningpretense.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-87542553306496473492014-02-05T18:46:55.868-06:002014-02-05T18:46:55.868-06:00Ha! Thank you :)Ha! Thank you :)the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-49921209352551298532014-02-05T18:45:09.103-06:002014-02-05T18:45:09.103-06:00The word "kitteh" hurts my eyes, friend....The word "kitteh" hurts my eyes, friend. And OMG. If only re: royalties. IF ONLY! the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.com