tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post3596863999265529349..comments2024-02-23T10:00:32.673-06:00Comments on the happy hausfrau: If a boy wants to play hockey, a boy should be able to play hockeythe_happy_hausfrauhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-53409563970521374152019-09-04T13:56:43.207-05:002019-09-04T13:56:43.207-05:00Nice touch with the teeth idea....Nice touch with the teeth idea....Fossilnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-60974355137547279532019-09-04T13:55:37.685-05:002019-09-04T13:55:37.685-05:00What a tool. There is a hot place in his future - ...What a tool. There is a hot place in his future - his and his skank. Eternity my friend. Keep being a great mama!Fossilnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-16937940439802899412012-10-03T17:17:46.504-05:002012-10-03T17:17:46.504-05:00I think Salish and JCS would get along swimmingly ...I think Salish and JCS would get along swimmingly :o)the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-81121968723911484712012-10-03T17:02:17.122-05:002012-10-03T17:02:17.122-05:00Oh Sil. I got goosebumps reading about what the j...Oh Sil. I got goosebumps reading about what the judge said!!! Good for YOU!! <br /><br />I am happy things have gone your way, you deserve a break. I hope your ex holds up his end of the bargain. <br /><br />Thank you so much for reading!the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-71890220582211438662012-10-03T16:56:37.675-05:002012-10-03T16:56:37.675-05:00Wisdom teeth? I meant dental appointments. I'...Wisdom teeth? I meant dental appointments. I'm mixing things up in my head, sorry. It's crowded in there.the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-20079641851448715572012-10-03T16:55:28.986-05:002012-10-03T16:55:28.986-05:00Oh Kirsten, you are so sweet. There really ISN...Oh Kirsten, you are so sweet. There really ISN'T anything redeeming about him, is there? I thought maybe there was something, perhaps hidden very deep down. But I don't think there is. <br /><br />I'm more than grateful for these kids. I hope I'm doing right by them. <br /><br />Thank you so much for reading!the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-75380212049222292372012-10-03T16:52:54.640-05:002012-10-03T16:52:54.640-05:00Hey lady!
I often wonder about their marriage. I...Hey lady!<br /><br />I often wonder about their marriage. I wonder if it's going to last just from sheer will? I don't know how they can stand it, knowing the shaky ground it was built upon. <br /><br />To see him alone, hurting, sad...I may go to hell for saying this, but I'd kinda like that. <br /><br />You are a masterful hug giver. And a really good, good person. So glad you're in our lives.<br /><br />the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-67746263526684195392012-10-03T16:48:33.623-05:002012-10-03T16:48:33.623-05:00Awww Jeffie..you keep saying I'm gonna find Mr...Awww Jeffie..you keep saying I'm gonna find Mr. Right! I'm holding you to that, girl. <br /><br />I can see it already in my kids. I can see the disappointment in their father, it's right there. That's sad. But they are strong, like me. They'll be fine!<br /><br />Thanks so much for your constant encouragement. I hope to be as happy as you are someday soon!<br /><br />Love you!the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-50506173684300028352012-10-03T16:37:27.218-05:002012-10-03T16:37:27.218-05:00"HERE I AM", indeed! Perfectly put! :D..."HERE I AM", indeed! Perfectly put! :D<br /><br />And even if there isn't such a thing as karma (perhaps the Universe has better things to do than balancing our scales of justice and making things "fair"?) -- there's a back-up plan, an inescapable truth that's much more personal, and it's something I've told myself many times since my ex-fiance showed his true colors: <br /><br />CHARACTER IS DESTINYSalishnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-76192240885379721802012-10-03T16:36:14.945-05:002012-10-03T16:36:14.945-05:00Christ on a cracker...now I'm craving Wheat Th...Christ on a cracker...now I'm craving Wheat Thins, thanks a lot!<br /><br />Karma seems to be on a different schedule than me. I hope I'm around to see her when she finally arrives. I bet she's pretty.<br /><br />Thanks for reading, lady.the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-68301637016335588622012-10-03T16:34:33.270-05:002012-10-03T16:34:33.270-05:00Amen, sister. He's just a little boy trapped ...Amen, sister. He's just a little boy trapped in a big goateed body. Tool.<br /><br />Thanks for reading!the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-48351256597756756182012-10-03T16:33:16.685-05:002012-10-03T16:33:16.685-05:00Thank you. Douchebaggery sums it up nicely!
Is t...Thank you. Douchebaggery sums it up nicely!<br /><br />Is this Danielle? Yay...I'll take a break from the concession stands to come say hi. the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-82931005944358534832012-10-03T16:31:55.792-05:002012-10-03T16:31:55.792-05:00Hey Twister...thank you. We'll be ok. I just...Hey Twister...thank you. We'll be ok. I just need to get this stuff out of my system so I don't say it out loud in front of them. I wanted to call him up, text him, email, and make some bitchy comment about it. Because I feel bad for the kids too. But they'll be ok. <br /><br />Thank you so much for reading.the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-62113891462184234612012-10-03T16:29:05.877-05:002012-10-03T16:29:05.877-05:00Hey Linda! I think I felt my blood pressure go up...Hey Linda! I think I felt my blood pressure go up when I read about a spa weekend and and a 3D tv, but no help with the wisdom teeth. Nice guy. <br /><br />I'd settle for a puck to the package. Or maybe a chipped tooth.<br /><br />Thanks for reading!!the_happy_hausfrauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07372773477740551839noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-18399640644025889012012-10-02T22:57:16.710-05:002012-10-02T22:57:16.710-05:00OMG What complete jerks these men are!! My EX canc...OMG What complete jerks these men are!! My EX cancelled our daughters wisdom teeth surgery because he said he didn't have the $700 needed upfront. Didn't even tell us he cancelled it until I called them a few days before to confirm the time. But 2 weeks later he took the OW to Las Vegas for a Nascar race. Just blows my mind!!! I'm still paying $25/mo for the balance of that surgery. But yesterday was my final divorce trial and he got his in more ways than one! That judge saw right through the selfish bastard and when he delivered his final verdict he said "Any one who has been a parent knows that there is a moral obligation and a legal obligation and she has upheld her moral obligations in taking care of her children. At least she still has a household." I literally wanted to run up and kiss that judge!!! My EX doesn't see or talk to our 3 kids and he is a loser in this divorce in more ways than one. I hate to be mean but it would serve him right if your EX gets a few teeth knocked out during one of his hockey games!Silnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-60361677633734683152012-10-02T22:23:54.248-05:002012-10-02T22:23:54.248-05:00There is just nothing redeeming about that "m...There is just nothing redeeming about that "man". My heart is broken in a thousand pieces for your son. I know these things"build character" and all that, and that God WiLL use this pitiful man's evil doings for His Glory, but dang it he really really sucks. <br /><br />Praise God that He chose you for these beautiful children knowing how you would love them in the most amazing ways. Bless you for your generous heart and enduring strength. You have stored so much treasure in heaven. Kirstenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09425941331388527532noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-44749489621593248652012-10-02T19:54:56.698-05:002012-10-02T19:54:56.698-05:00Once more, everyone else who's commented has p...Once more, everyone else who's commented has put it better than I could. All I can add is: <br />1. Gosh, Big Daddy sure gives a whole 'nother dimension to the terms "loser" and "douchebag," doesn't he? (Anonymous, above, put it beautifully: "Douchebaggery at its finest." For sure. <br /><br />2. What I wish for him -- besides getting hit in los nueces with a frozen puck, more than once -- is that the following happens: Secretary suddenly dumps him for a boy-toy half BD's age who is much hotter and richer. Especially since she now finds BD "icky" and "gross" and tells him so in her goodbye note. She takes the kid with her too. In one of those oh-so-beautiful twists of fate, BD, on the rebound, winds up with my friend Karen's boyfriend's ex-wife, who is kind of the female version of BD. They deserve each other. (Salish, that would be Karma saying "HERE I AM!")<br /><br />3. William's response to hearing his sorry excuse for a dad is playing hockey now breaks my heart. He needs a great big hug....and so do you.<br /><br />(Not 10 on Tuesday maybe, but hopefully 3 will do :)<br /><br />Hang in there...I'm always sending good thoughts your way!JCShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18206618987380198579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-17087660949556584982012-10-01T18:12:06.470-05:002012-10-01T18:12:06.470-05:00I could have written this post so many times in th...I could have written this post so many times in the past, just using different things than hockey, since we lived in the South....but as a parent who parented by myself for most of the my oldest two's childhoods; I can tell you it turns out okay in the end. They will grow into great adults and they will give you the credit....and they will "tolerate" their father, at best. Sure, there may be a time in each of their lives that they may try and have a child/father relationship with him...but it will never work, and they will give up on it forever, once they are adults. Sad? Yes. Are you to blame? No...only for having a bad "picker" when it came to your first husband. lol (And in my case, my 2nd and 3rd as well...but alas, #4 was the one! Hey! I can't help it if I have a learning disability when it comes to men! lol) When, no IF, but WHEN, you meet the man that God has for you, your soulmate, and yes, you will know it, the kids will have a stable male figure in their lives...even if they are grown before you meet this man (and I highly doubt they will be), they will love him and look to him as a "dad". Big Daddy will get his...maybe not on this earth...but he will get his. I'm so sorry you and your kids are going through this...as always...you're in my prayers. Love you! Hang tough! :)Jeffienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-28490973643207591532012-10-01T15:28:47.585-05:002012-10-01T15:28:47.585-05:00Christ on a cracker. I'm speechless. (And you ...Christ on a cracker. I'm speechless. (And you likely know by now I'm not usually rendered mute.) Wait, one little speech excerpt (with apologies to Wm. Shakespeare -- ) ...<br /><br />"O Karma, Karma, wherefore art thou Karma?"<br /><br />(Hurry your ass up!)<br /><br />Salishnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-14919296841065998912012-10-01T13:39:53.205-05:002012-10-01T13:39:53.205-05:00Sometimes saying nothing at all can mean so much m...Sometimes saying nothing at all can mean so much more than yelling & getting angry. Its pathetic how some father's can act like more of a child than the actual child himself.Linhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14180987728892745670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-49421574037732171482012-10-01T09:30:10.261-05:002012-10-01T09:30:10.261-05:00I've typed and erased about three different co...I've typed and erased about three different comments, none of which I feel like posting, because I can't offer any thoughtful, encouraging advice on this.<br />This is douchebaggery at its finest, plain and simple. <br />Selfish and mean.<br />And this, of course, means that you won't get to watch William play because you'll be in the concession stands.<br />But the part that's killing me the most, is that I can actually visualize William sitting in your living room with his homework, Walter nearby. I can see him look up through his shaggy bangs and look at you with those big sad eyes as the irony of the situation registers in his mind.<br />Well. William's buddy and I are excited to come see him play a game or two this winter.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-45502065039078646762012-10-01T08:09:41.149-05:002012-10-01T08:09:41.149-05:00This is unbelievable. How can he not think of his ...This is unbelievable. How can he not think of his son every time he puts on his skates? I feel so badly for your kids. So sorry you and your kids have to deal with so much crap from this man.twisterfishhttp://twisterfish.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7377914227915645124.post-28886990728175488612012-10-01T07:53:12.827-05:002012-10-01T07:53:12.827-05:00Somehow, this one pisses me off even more than som...Somehow, this one pisses me off even more than some of the rest of the crap he's pulled. Mine does the same. Can't pay for dental appts for his kids (no ins so its big $$$$) but can post FB pics of spa wkends w/ his gf and buy a huge 3D tv (and forget to buy the glasses???). Not to wish ill will, but maybe he'll get the sh$t beat out of him on the ice. Ah, sweet justice. Or maybe just a severe groin pull. That would be good too. Lindanoreply@blogger.com